wednesday 9.10pm
this evening i have done some poll finding at my facebook wall there about beauty @ in Bahasa Malaysia we say 'cantik'...
and the opinions are quite interesting if not much because people don't want to talk about serious things in their FB (from what i've seen). most people just like to having fun and when you ask ed about their opinion, somehow it kind of a burden to them..well i better satisfied with that less than 10 opinion collections..but i do appreciate these people who had share their view..thanx..
this is what we got ;
almost 90% (all women) stating that beauty for them represent inner beauty..meaning..kind hearted, nice behaviour etc...
one of my male friend said..of course what we first saw is the outlook..meaning the pretty face la..
one said..inner beauty is the most important..never judge the book by it's cover...
so...i just simplified that most people think that beautiful for them comes with kind heart, positive attitude towards others..simple..
well..to be honest? for me..may be 10% (or less) of us will try to check the background or the attitude of someone that we first saw before we decided that we are interested to know them more ..rite? especially in courtship law...its normal if we judge the book by its cover..it happen many times to me..even if i want to purchase a real book..heheh..i did check the cover illustration first, except for danielle steele and sidney shieldon books..they are everything i looked for in any book i wanted to read...
most boys will attracted to the outlook of the gals before they started sending you mails or call...only after that they can decide if the gals is nice enough...to be their girlfriend..and the girls knowing this will dress nicely, put on some make up to show off to the boys...plus the giggle..its works..;)
but for me...in my eyes..beautiful girls only looked beautiful if they can get my attention for what they said, how they reacted with people around them...it's come to smart or intelligent...a beauty queen wouldn't impressed me much until they passed the interview sect...cruel?..but that is what interest me...
in other way beauty does come with age..we called every child we see beautiful because of their innocence look, we found that teenagers look beautiful because of their energy and when we are over 30 and on our way into 40 years old, we feel beautiful because we have peace in ourselves, reality in having a stable career and happy family i guess...this is the time we feel more confident as we don't really need others opinion about our life and what we are doing..maturity and motherly looks always worked in amazed me..
special case such as Ziana Zain and Amy Mastura, our own mother and actress..they look so beautiful after having few kids and when the age increase..same thing with Hollywod mother too...Nicole Kidman look amazingly beautiful after given birth to her daughter Sunday Rose...
of course you might say that is because they have money to maintain they beauty..well may be that is one of the reason but really i've seen few of my friends, when they are happy with their family and marriage it did reflect on their skin and they looked just beautiful...
when people around you or close enough to you appreciate you as you are, you will tend to feel confident in carrying yourself gracefully...some women are not that beautiful as we call it but they are so smart and confident in presenting themselves to others..contras to some women that is kind of loud, confident with themselves but people might have smirk on their face because of the negative way they carrying their attitude in a social community...
i used to heard some friends said; too bad the attitude covered the beauty face..well, it did mean something right?
so my dear friends..its true i think that inner beauty is the main factor..want to look good, be smart..want to look graceful, be nice and sincere to others around you..want to FEEL beautiful, make peace with yourself...;)
sharon stone..the sexy, hot actress of Hollywood got her 1st place in my list of beauty..at the age of 15 she received scholarship and graduate from Edinboro Unversity fron Pennsylvania in writing and fine arts, a MENSA member and her IQ is 154..what more a woman want..;) the look? do i need to comment?
this evening i have done some poll finding at my facebook wall there about beauty @ in Bahasa Malaysia we say 'cantik'...
and the opinions are quite interesting if not much because people don't want to talk about serious things in their FB (from what i've seen). most people just like to having fun and when you ask ed about their opinion, somehow it kind of a burden to them..well i better satisfied with that less than 10 opinion collections..but i do appreciate these people who had share their view..thanx..
this is what we got ;
almost 90% (all women) stating that beauty for them represent inner beauty..meaning..kind hearted, nice behaviour etc...
one of my male friend said..of course what we first saw is the outlook..meaning the pretty face la..
one said..inner beauty is the most important..never judge the book by it's cover...
so...i just simplified that most people think that beautiful for them comes with kind heart, positive attitude towards others..simple..
well..to be honest? for me..may be 10% (or less) of us will try to check the background or the attitude of someone that we first saw before we decided that we are interested to know them more ..rite? especially in courtship law...its normal if we judge the book by its cover..it happen many times to me..even if i want to purchase a real book..heheh..i did check the cover illustration first, except for danielle steele and sidney shieldon books..they are everything i looked for in any book i wanted to read...
most boys will attracted to the outlook of the gals before they started sending you mails or call...only after that they can decide if the gals is nice enough...to be their girlfriend..and the girls knowing this will dress nicely, put on some make up to show off to the boys...plus the giggle..its works..;)
but for me...in my eyes..beautiful girls only looked beautiful if they can get my attention for what they said, how they reacted with people around them...it's come to smart or intelligent...a beauty queen wouldn't impressed me much until they passed the interview sect...cruel?..but that is what interest me...
in other way beauty does come with age..we called every child we see beautiful because of their innocence look, we found that teenagers look beautiful because of their energy and when we are over 30 and on our way into 40 years old, we feel beautiful because we have peace in ourselves, reality in having a stable career and happy family i guess...this is the time we feel more confident as we don't really need others opinion about our life and what we are doing..maturity and motherly looks always worked in amazed me..
special case such as Ziana Zain and Amy Mastura, our own mother and actress..they look so beautiful after having few kids and when the age increase..same thing with Hollywod mother too...Nicole Kidman look amazingly beautiful after given birth to her daughter Sunday Rose...
of course you might say that is because they have money to maintain they beauty..well may be that is one of the reason but really i've seen few of my friends, when they are happy with their family and marriage it did reflect on their skin and they looked just beautiful...
when people around you or close enough to you appreciate you as you are, you will tend to feel confident in carrying yourself gracefully...some women are not that beautiful as we call it but they are so smart and confident in presenting themselves to others..contras to some women that is kind of loud, confident with themselves but people might have smirk on their face because of the negative way they carrying their attitude in a social community...
i used to heard some friends said; too bad the attitude covered the beauty face..well, it did mean something right?
so my dear friends..its true i think that inner beauty is the main factor..want to look good, be smart..want to look graceful, be nice and sincere to others around you..want to FEEL beautiful, make peace with yourself...;)
sharon stone..the sexy, hot actress of Hollywood got her 1st place in my list of beauty..at the age of 15 she received scholarship and graduate from Edinboro Unversity fron Pennsylvania in writing and fine arts, a MENSA member and her IQ is 154..what more a woman want..;) the look? do i need to comment?
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